Thanks should go to the unsolicited insider whomever you may be for your wonderful insight. I honestly didn't think I could feel any worse about the situation, but thanks to your comment, I now feel much worse.
Don't you think for one instant that I am not good enough for her. I made mistakes which I am doing my best to atone for, and trying my hardest to get over a person with whom I was making plans with for the rest of our lives. Five months ago it was me looking at engagement rings, and it was us planning for a life together. I never stopped loving her (and still haven't), but was too blind to love myself enough to admit my own shortcomings which ultimately cost me everything and hurt a person who I love.
So, to whomever you are, thank you for your hate.
2 comments:
I apologize for the harsh response. My intention was not to make the situation worse for you. I wanted to make it clear that things would not have worked out regardless of your actions. Please get over her and get on with your life. It seemed that a hard line was the only way to make this happen. I am sure you are capable of making someone happy, just not the person in question.
Apology accepted, though it is not your place to help me "get on with my life" as you put it.
A person as erudite as yourself should understand that getting on with one's life and stopping caring about someone are two things which can be dealt with independent of each other.
I have moved on, and I am doing fine, thank you very much. However, I have the uncanny ability to maintain my concern and compassion for others even after they have made it clear that they no longer wish to be associated with me.
Just because they stopped caring doesn't mean I have to - maybe some day they may appreciate it, even if only in friendship.
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